A Starter’s Guide To Marital Aids

29
Aug
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Marital aids have been around in one form or another for years but they are becoming more popular than ever in advanced day society. Often referred to as marital aids, sex toysaid sexual pleasure for couples or for solo use. A recent study of the Temptations Direct website buyer figures illustrates that the proportion of men and women buying marital aids is a fairly even split with 52% of women and 48% of men being consumers. If you are just starting out with marital aids and want to try them out for the first time to heighten your partners sexual satisfaction and spice up your bedroom activities but are unsure what sort of toy to buy, this guide can help you to decide what to do.

What type of marital aid is the best to begin with?

Which adult toys to start with is one of the first things to consider when thinking about the potential purchase of sex toys? Adult toys come in many different guises: dildos, cock rings, anal adult toys, pump~pumps for ladies and men~penis pumps, clitoral pumps}, rubber dolls, strap ons and vibrators to name but a few. If you want to experience a penetrative adult toy for the first time it is a good idea to try something that has some level of flexibleness such as a jelly dildo. Non penetrative sex toys such as cock rings that are made of silicon or rubber have some give in them and can help to prolong an hard-on which is firmer and fuller that can lead to increased sexual satisfaction for both parties. These penis rings have far more flexibility than rigid metal penis rings, which cause considerable limitation to the wearer.

Size and cost concerns

Other important factors to consider are size and cost.  Start small and work up to bigger adult toys when you have more experience. Mini vibrators deliver a tremendous experience but are small enough to be taken just about anyplace. You also do not want to spend a considerable amount on your first purchase if you are unsure whether you will enjoy the experience of a marital aid. Small vibrators start from as low as £4, jelly dildos are anything from £10 and cock rings retail from as little as £2 and consequently do not result in a expensive outgoing.

Use sexual lubes

If you are a beginner to penetrative sex toys it is always advisable to use a sex lube. This is particularly important in the use of anal toys  as neither the anus nor the rectum naturally cause their own lubrication so it is imperative that anal lubrication is used for more fun and comfortable anal sex toy pursuits. Moreover, some anal gels and sprays are specifically designed to sort out the tissues surrounding the anus and relax the anal muscles, therefore making penetration considerably more {enjoyable}. Anal finger stimulators are ideal for first timers to anal play as not only are they small and inexpensive but they are often made of soft silicone making penetration far more enjoyable.

Sex toy cleaner

On purchasing your adult toy you should also contemplate buying a sex toy cleaner. Cheap to buy, this additional item should be utilised straight away after adult toy use to keep it clean. Safe, effective and ant-bacterial, adult toy cleaners help to prevent the spread of germs and bacteria and help to keep your marital aid last for longer.

Eeeny, meeny, miney, mo! For which vibrator shall I go?

12
Jan
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Maybe you already have a few adult toys and are considering buying another or perhaps you’re literally ‘toying‘ with the idea of buying your very first one – with so many different styles of vibrator on the market – do you know what each one does?

Not all vibrators are created equal - and - depending on its shape and functions, vibrators are designed to give you either G-spot, clitoral or vaginal stimulation. In the case of Rabbit Vibrators however – you get a hat-trick - all three in one. However, before you head to your local adult shop or online store, read this rundown on vibrator types to see which one fits your own personal preference the best.

Bullets — Bullet vibrators are small, discreet and can be used all over the body, internally or externally. They are very versatile and they travel very discreetly and easily. They are often really inexpensive and can be enjoyed by women or men. Bullets are typically hard-shelled (either plastic or aluminum) or covered with a soft rubber or jelly coating. Try them on your nipples, labia, clitoris or G-spot (as long as the bullet has a retrieval cord).

Eggs — Egg vibrators are identical to bullets, providing the same types of stimulation. However, an egg vibrator is shaped like— yes you guessed it—an egg.

Traditional Vibrators — When we talk about a traditional vibrator, we mean your basic hard-shelled plastic vibrator, measuring anywhere from four to eight inches long. These vibrators are for both external and internal stimulation. They vibrate at multiple speeds, which are usually controlled by a knob at the base of the vibrator. Traditional vibrators can run on AA or C cell batteries. They vary in power and speed, but the hard shell means you feel more vibration with no ‘buffer’.

Realistic Vibrators — A realistic vibrator has a phallic shape, with all the details of a real penis. Realistic vibes vary in size and shape, but are generally made of silicone, jelly or rubber materials, giving them a softer feel. Realistic vibes - which are often referred to as dildos - can be used internally or externally. They vary in vibration speeds and functions (such as rotation) and battery types as well.

Rabbit Vibrators — Rabbit vibrators stimulate your vaginal walls, G-spot and your clitoris, simultaneously. Rabbits have a rotating or oscillating shaft that is pleasurably lined with massaging beads or pearls—this is the part you use internally. They also feature vibrating bunny ears that caress your clitoris on the outside. Vibrator rabbits are much sought after - they shot to fame following a Sex and the City episode in which Charlotte becomes a recluse following the aquisition of a rabbit vibrator. At sites such as LoveTheRabbit.com you’ll find many vibrator rabbit articles, information, raves and reviews and links to the stores that stock them.

G-Spot Vibrators — G-spot vibrators were designed to locate and stimulate your G-spot. Some G-spot vibrators are hard and rigid; some are soft and flexible. G-spot vibrators feature a curved or hooked head for targeted stimulation.

Clitoral Stimulators — Some vibrators were designed especially for clitoral stimulation. A number of these vibrators are actually wearable and some are shaped to fit over your pubic bone. You can use these discreet vibes during sex or solo play.

Specialty Vibrators — Some vibrators defy categorization. They still vibrate and provide thrilling stimulation: They just have unique, innovative and spectacular shapes and functions. Some are UFO cone shaped, others are long and pencil thin while others still are very futuristic in their forms and finishes. There is even a range of vibrators that will throb in time to the music on your MP3 player – they are called the OhMiBod – and are powered by your iPod.