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Nice Guys Finish Last

The Most Common Reasons Why Nice Guys Finish Last

There are many reasons that nice guys finish last, but this article explains some of the most common ones. It is a very common misconception the many guys make when they are new to dating women that they should constantly be ‘nice’ all the time. While this might sound a bit peculiar to some people, here are the reasons why this is actually the case.

Although the opposite is certainly not true, it is certainly not a good idea to be excessively nice. This makes you look weak and completely out of control in your situation. Most women like a degree of manliness in their men.

If you constantly do everything that she wants and follower her around constantly complimenting her and buying her presence, then you are going to be what all your friends will probably call ‘under the thumb’. You will be turned into a laughing stock and people will start not to take you seriously, including all other women.

It looks pitiful, but while you should not be overpowering either, you should assert some degree of power to be in control of your own destiny. This doesn’t mean to say you need to boss women around at all, but being overly enthusiastic is something that is just going to put them off.

Another reason why nice guys finish last is because there are constantly complementing women. After a time, this becomes a complete cliche. Buying flowers, constantly complimenting and automatically doing everything they want is simply going to make you into a laughing stock.

Always, nice guys finish last, simply because they are not doing things in the right way. They’re trying to take too much notice and pay too much attention to the women in question and this comes across as obsessive and if anything, outright pushy. This is enough to turn any normal woman off completely.

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