Ten Steps to Master Communicating with Ladies
Oct0
Ok guys, do you often feel like you just can’t be natural when it comes to communicating with women? Are you a complete marble mouth and ending up frustrated in your romantic life because you keep turning women off when you communicate with them? Then you see other men who don’t seem to be any smarter than you or attractive and girls just seem to be all about them. Why is that? Well, if you are ready to discover what you want to know about communicating with women then here are ten ways to get your act together:
The first thing is that you gotta quit trying to impress her. Women don’t like it when you try to decide for them about how they should feel about you. If you truly want to be able to talk to a woman you better just relax and let her make up her mind about what she thinks about you.
The second thing you must master is keeping your compliments about how hot she is to yourself. Trust me, if she’s pretty, she knows she is. She’s had men telling her for her whole life, so what’s the difference if you tell her the same thing? If you must tell her something nice, find something about her personality or her clothes.
The third thing is that you can’t be afraid to enter her space. This means that you touch her lightly on the arm when you are speaking or at least touch one of her belongings like her purse or her cell phone. You see, girls have this kind of sixth sense and they can tell if you are uneasy. Then they become uneasy and when that happens they just make up their mind that they don’t like feeling that way and they split.
The fourth thing you have to understand is boundaries. If it looks like a women is ready to wrap up the conversation and you turn into that desperate man who attempts to retain her attention she is going to shut you off like a light switch. Think about it, she could be in a hurry or maybe she is just a little uncomfortable because she is kind of attracted to you. Either way, if you seem desperate she is going to book.
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The fifth thing to get a hold of is the art of ’negging’. In other words, you bring up something about her that is not so cool or even unattractive. Just do it in a low key way and don’t be cruel or critical. This will suggest to her that she has to convince you otherwise and before too long she will be all over you trying to win your attention.
Sixth, you must master sexual tension. Now this is a thing which puts the misfortunate nice guys out in the cold when it comes to women. You see, physical attraction between a male and a woman requires some tension in order to work. Which means that you oppose her and even test her in a teasing sort of way.
The seventh thing is establishing comfort. The issue is that a lot of guys attempt to achieve this by bending to her every need and being a nice guy. Sorry, that will only cause her to feel really uneasy. Why? Because a girl feeling comfortable is all about her having confidence in your capacity to keep her safe, being soft just doesn’t get the job done when it comes to that.
That brings us to the eighth key to attracting women and that is being the bad boy in place of the nice guy. You see, a girl is not drawn to the nice guy because she is worried that he won’t be able to protect her. Being the alpha male is going to make her feel secure when she is with you and because she feels safe she is going to let down her defenses.
Number nine, take initiative. Women are much better at being easy on guys for moving too fast or offending them than they are to forgive a man who is sluggish or unsure of himself. If you delay until you see what she thinks of you before you take action, don’t be taken aback when she ends up being snatched up by a man who goes after what he wants.
Finally, approach the girl who is a bit of a challenge and who may not seem that she really wants a guy in her life. Many men are simply too scared of a confident woman. This only means that there is less competition so if you are the man who takes the initiative to pursue the seemingly unattainable girl you are most likely the guy who is going to get to be with her.
Just be sure to practice each one of these principles and don’t neglect them unless you want to wind up playing cards with the nice guys on weekend nights. Good Luck!
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Aug0
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