Proven Dating Tips For Guys
Sep0
Have you noticed that friends are always keen to share their dating tips to help you approach a girl just when they’re sitting around having a beer doing little themselves to approach girls. It’s then they come out with all their ways how to approach a girl! Did you ever wonder why it is that they are sharing their tips with you instead of making the moves on their own? Perhaps their confidence in themselves to score ranks lower than your ability to score. If they have that much faith in your ability to approach a girl should you not have as much or even more?
It’s a cliche but it’s true - first impressions ARE the lasting ones. If you are somewhat negative as you approach a girl, chances are it is going to be short lived. One of the easily overlooked dating tips for guys is how you look, especially when you meet the girl for the first time. There’s no question girls like to feel relaxed, and if you are dressed in a way that intimidates or errs on being a bit ridiculous, your sheer appearence will make her feel uncomfortable. When going out with the idea of approaching a girl dress neat, dress clean, and dress in accordance with the local dress code. There are some places where spiked purple hair is appropriate and some places where a three piece suit is appropriate. Seldom are they the same place so do not confuse the two.
One liners work in movies and occasionally in other places. But for the most part a polished one liner is no way to approach a girl, especially if she doesn’t know you from ‘Adam’. A far better way to make your approach is through a mutual acquaintance.
When you see the girl of your dreams, look to see who she is with. It may be that you know someone at the table, and if so strike up a conversation with them first, working on achieving an introduction. Don’t worry if the mutual friend is simply a ‘friend of a friend’, or someone you’ve only briefly met, you can still use them to get you an intro at the table. A sincere and open introduction will achieve far more than some supposed ‘best one liner’.
If the one liner is the biggest cause of a premature collapse in a relationship attempt, the second biggest is not knowing what to say next. Girls are looking for someone with some depth to them. You may have the most beautiful eyes in the world but if after you say hello all you can offer her is a chance to look into them you would have been better off staying at home and playing computer games. One of the key dating tips for guys is to have some things in mind to talk about and be ready to listen as well. You are not there to lecture but to share thoughts and ideas. Remember you want to get to know her as well.
And if you strike out, acknowledge it cheerfully and move on. It’s not neccessary to burn bridges. Remember she just might be the one you need to provide the next introduction as you practice how to approach a girl.
Extract taken from full review and article at Double Your Dating Review
How To Approach A Girl And Get Results
Aug0
There isn’t a single man around who would not love to have the secret to getting a girl to fall for them quickly and easily, and would love to know how to approach a girl in a way that gets results. Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a book that was guaranteed to ensure that you knew clearly how to approach a girl with consistent positive results.
Well, that is not really the case (aside of our recommendation on the right) because finding the best ways to impress a girl really depends on the girl herself. However, there are some things that you can do that nearly every girl likes, that will help you get the girl and keep her if you want too.
One of the key things you need to take on board is to be confident, not cocky. For whatever reason men seem to confuse the two and will often turn a girl off by being obnoxious rather than simply confident. So, what is the difference between the two? Well, a guy who is obnoxious will address a girl in a term like baby, or babe. Without even asking, an obnoxious guy will join a girl at a table and start talking, this is not confidence, this is simply being rude. Instead, if you want to convey confidence, then you should approach a girl while looking her directly in the eyes. Introduce yourself and ask if you can join her, dance, etc. whatever the situation dictates. Taking her by the lebow with your hand is OK, but don’t be too keen to hold her hand or put your arm around her. Guide, not pull. That is the guy who gets the girl!
If you want to be the guy who knows how to approach a girl in a way that gets results then after you have approached her and she is open to chatting to you, talk to her about her, when she asks about you share a little but don’t talk too much about yourself. Be clear - girls really like guys who make an effort to listen.
Try to work in a compliment about her eyes and lips. Get her to think about kissing, but don’t be crude. Look to compliment her with comments that relate specifically to her, like admire her smile or the way she laughs, that way your avoiding the obvious and cliche comments like “I think you’re hot”, and by being specific she knows you are focused on her.
OK, perhaps you aren’t they guy that always gets the girl (yet!), nevertheless is you start by treating a women like she is a person with feelings and not simply a prize to win over, you’ll be amazed how this simple concept will raise the amount of attention you get from women. She may not immediately tell you, if ever, but a woman wants to be sure that you really want them. Find the right words and use them and before you know it, you will get the girl.
Extract taken from full review and article at double your dating review