Get Ur Ex Back By Being A Bit Devious & Dirty
Oct0
If you want to get ur ex back you may have to play a little dirty. In this situation I think (almost) anything goes. When I was dumped I would have gone to almost any lengths to get my ex back. Will You?
What sort of devious tactics are we using here? You could blackmail your ex, or maybe stalk or kidnap them. All very underhand and none of them should even enter your head.
The tactics we want to use are psychological tactics. Manipulation. And when we say “manipulation” we’re talking very subtle manipulation. Nothing that comes even close to crossing that imaginary line we all know we shouldn’t cross.
Human beings react and respond to the same sort of triggers. It’s these emotional factors we are going to be using to help get you back with your ex. Use them correctly and you could be back together in no time at all.
Here’s a quick example of psychological tactics. A good friend, albeit a lazy friend won’t go to the gym with you. So you say “it’s ok if your body isn’t up to the task”.
Two seconds later they are raring to go saying “of course I’m capable of a workout”. You are using psychology, and in this case their pride to manipulate the situation your way. These are the same tactics you can use to easily get your ex back.
Another example, the employee of the month competition. Employers can manipulate their staff to squeeze out just that little bit more production. The employer usually gives out a worthless plaque at the end of it. Classic psychological mind games at work.
Ask yourself this question now. How badly do you want them back? You can let them go and move on. This is usually what happens if you don’t do anything.
Or do you get down & dirty, get yourself a handful of psychological tactics to get your ex back and live happy ever after. The tools you need are at this website….
Giving Up Your Relationship With Your Ex
Jul0
Shawna Mason from Just Get My Ex Back shares what to do and spot an ailing relationship before it too late. Get your life back. You deserve it!
How to know when to end your relationship or give up getting your ex back? Why do you stick around with a hope that your relationship is going to get better by trying the next best thing or trying to win back your ex when some things are just not right. When do you really know that your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend is not worth it? What are the warning signs, that you must pay attention to and if you find them, just shake off the dust off your ex and move on?
Warning Sign #1: Abuse
Run for your life if you find that you are dealing with psychological abuse, especially if you think it’s deliberate and not just the result of ignorance or insensitivity. Just forget your ex if the guy or gal criticizes you with guilt trips, even abuse, always double message and demeaning you. If you are always preparing for a defense, waiting for an attack, it can be very exhausting emotionally and will affect your self-esteem big time.
Don’t hesistate to run for your life if your ex have been abusive physically… even for once. Don’t think it is your fault. One in every three women is assaulted by her partner. Two of every three women who are physically abused after marriage had been abused while they were still dating.
Just know that if you experience verbal abuse followed by disdainful or verbal insults; which leads to intimidation of physical violence, you know that your ex is NOT WORTH IT. Leave now.
Warning Sign #2: Jealousy
Forget about the old fashion jealousy love that you need to be jealous to be wildly in love. But, let’s face it… LOVE IS NOT JEALOUS. It might feel flattering at first, but great jealousy is always a great problem.
If you have a jealous ex that gets all green-eyed even when you are with your friends, acquaintances or even family, your life will start to be meaningless, diminished. Then what is life then… A jealous lover is an angry lover.
If you think you can make him or her secure enough that your partner’s jealousy will subside, think again. Extreme jealousy, makes the other partner feel insecure, and it’s lethal for love.
Warning Sign #3: Unfaithfulness
Forget about your ex if he or she had been unfaithful to you. In fact, think twice if he is being unfaithful to someone else when he was with you, or if he was unfaithful to his previous partner - even if she forgave him! You may forgive… but you may never forget.
Stop blaming yourself if he cheated. It’s not you, it’s definitely him. The number one reason that faithful men do not cheat isn’t because it is greater love, but it is greater commitment and it is because “they promised”.
Ninety percent of American men say they believe affairs “are always or almost always wrong.” 1 in 4 do it silently anyway. Look out for one of the other three!
Find out Ways To Win Your Ex Girlfriend Back by clicking on the link.
Warning Sign #4: Liars
If your ex lies to you, just forget about him or her. Sometimes it’s white lies to make others feel good (ie. thanks I love the sweater) or to make you feel good (ie. I’m a sensitive kind of guy).
Learn how to spot liars… it’s not easy. Be alert and if you feel that you partner seems to good to be true, probably he is.
Warning Sign #5: (Perpetually) Unemployed or needy
If your ex is a bump and gets fired from his job again and again. It’s not about the money but it’s about playing well with others. Probably he is having some bad luck. Of course, but could he be unappreciated time and again. And, most of the time, he is probably depressed, full of anger and low in self-esteem. I guess you could stick with him but you don’t really need a needy person, you know.
What I’m saying here is if you know your ex is needing help, money, support, encouragement ALL THE TIME, he or she is sucking your life away. He is too self-centered to be in a relationship in the first place. So, say your goodbyes and run.
Just think about it, no need to cry and whine for your ex back. He or she is not worth it if they fall in any of these categories.
If you still think your Ex is still worth it… Get some advice by clicking here: Get My Ex Back where Shawna Mason shares what to do and spot an ailing relationship. Make sure you sign up for her 6-part mini course which has helped thousands! Take care.