The Top Lover’s Tips to Intimate Yoni and Lingham Massage
Aug0
Author: Maya Silverman
Once you’ve set the mood and relaxed your partner, you’re ready to begin massaging their genitals. At this stage, communication and attentiveness are particularly important. Begin by gently cupping their genitals and be sure to make eye contact. Wait for permission to continue.
Massaging the Lingam (male sex organs).
Tantra adherents practice a “no-ejaculation” policy, believing that the energies released during orgasm are best put to other uses. For the purposes of couple massage, however, orgasm is often considered an important element to a successful massage.
An intense orgasm may leave a male partner too exhausted to continue, so in opposite sex couples, it’s helpful to have the woman receive her massage first, or at a separate occasion.
The Kama Sutra teaches us to continuously bring our male partners to a point just before orgasm and then switch the stroke. Prolonging the orgasmic process can help develop multi-orgasmic ability and also lead to a finishing orgasm like none other. Many couples find that they can pick two or three favourite strokes and by changing them back and forth, can maintain arousal and prolong ejaculation to a point of ecstacy.
Generally, men prefer a firm, consistent stroke. A sliding stroke which caresses the penis from tip to base and back up again is best combined with some gentle massage of his testes. Or try using both hands to alternate stroking in only one direction.
Teaser strokes involving some gentle play interspersed with an increasing number of firm up and down strokes can draw out an unbelievable orgasm.
Regardless of the strokes you and your partner settle on, the use of plenty of lubricant and some sexy talk will be sure to enhance the experience of Lingham massage .
Massaging the Yoni (female sex organs)
Almost all women are capable of multiple orgasms. This is fortunate for Tantric massage as it means that withholding orgasm will not be necessary. It is quite possible to maintain a high level of arousal through several peaks before your partner is too exhausted to continue.
Women’s arousal is far more complex than men’s, relying much on her mood and comfort levels. For this reason, communication and attention to detail is of utmost importance.
Once your partner is sufficiently relaxed, and you have permission to continue with the genital portion of the massage, begin slowly. A woman’s sex organs are very sensitive and require a significant “warming up” period before they are prepared for intense stimulation.
There are two kinds of orgasms a woman can achieve. The clitoral orgasm is the result (unsurprisingly) of clitoral stimulation. Many women find a circular motion around their clitoris very effective for this. Using the clitoral hood as the point of contact is the best way to gently bring a woman to a clitoral orgasm. Often the parts of the clitoris that can be uncovered are far too sensitive to direct contact for stimulation to be pleasant.
Many women prefer to have their vaginas full while achieving orgasm, and a couple fingers or an appropriate dildo can help with this. Make sure that your partner is aroused before inserting anything into her vagina, as the alternative is quite unpleasant.
The second kind of female orgasm is a g-spot orgasm. The g-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, near the root of the clitoris. If you can find it, it is an intense and expedient way to bring forth multiple orgasms.
Many women experience difficulty cumming because they feel self-conscious. During Female Tantric Massage remember to keep communication open and reassure your partner that you are enjoying the process. Keep the pressure off and you will be rewarded.
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Attract Women Today!
Jul0
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